13 Friends With Benefits Rules You Should Follow
A lot of us have seen movies like ‘Friends with benefits,’ ‘No Strings Attached’ and other such movies showing sexual relationship with friends. Friends with benefits relationships can be a lot of fun given the fact that there are no emotions and complications involved.
It obviously has some complications such as one can start catching feelings, but the overall it's a great way to enjoy physical intimacy without getting into a committed relationship.
While there can be no hard and fast set of rules to maintain healthy friends with benefits relationship, there are some basics that the two people involved should keep in mind. Every individual is different and hence the set of rules also differs.
But one thing that is common in any FWB relationship or casual relationship is communication.
Clear communication leads to clarity and sets the pace of things. Communicate as much as possible and find out what your partner wants and what are their expectations. It is very important for the people involved to be on the same page.
13 Friends With Benefits Rules To Follow:
1. Always be clear about your intentions
It is very important to be clear about what both the people in the relationship want. FWB relationships need to transparent with a lot of communication.
If it turns out that you guys aren’t communicating enough, things could turn out to be problematic.
It is always suggested to have open both-sided conversations to let each other know the things that are going on and whether the relationship is going as it should be.
2. Never be friends with benefits with your best friend
This is perhaps the most important rule that needs to be kept in mind. No matter how easy and comfortable you are with your close friends and think that things can remain casual, most often things turn out the other way.
You already have emotions for a close friend of yours and studies have shown that eventually one or the other person ends up falling in love.
In most cases, the feelings turn out to be one-sided and the friendship comes to an end. It is a terrible way to lose a close friend and therefore very important to not get involved with them in the first place.
The emotional connection is already very strong in a friendship so it's very likely you or them might start developing feelings and then it will only hurt the feelings of both of you. Read More…