Why do marriages fail today? Is something missing in the relationship?
Last Friday, a well-known figure from the Peruvian show business announced the end of their marriage after two years of relationship. These cases make us reflect and ask ourselves: why do couples decide to get married and soon separate so easily? What ingredient is missing?
The psychotherapist and psychologist Walter Hinojosa points out that the causes of separation can be many.One that is seen most frequently is related to the need for people to fill their emotional gaps with their partners. When they feel that they are 'no longer happy', they simply step aside in the relationship, instead of trying to save some of the love that they swore to each other at some point. This also boils down to a lack of commitment.
“It also happens because of social pressure. Family and friends often insist saying: 'it's time to get married', 'the train is leaving', 'don't think about it so much' or 'it's now or never'. It is wrong to make a decision based on the opinion of others. In the end, you are the one who gets married. For this reason, you and your partner should talk and together find out if you really want to unite your lives”, advises the specialist.
INGREDIENTS
Getting married does not always mean 'together until eternity', but you can try to get along in the best way and preserve the marriage bond. To do this, you need the following ingredients:
♦Love.Without him, nothing exists.
♦ Commitment.If he is not present, rest assured that your marriage will not last long. Read More…