Ignoring Her When She Goes Cold: Why It’s Effective and How To Do It
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Loading... - Jude Baker
- 22 Mar 2023
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Does your girlfriend’s silent treatment drive you crazy at times? You’re probably thinking of ignoring her when she goes cold. The question is, should you do it?
If you stop pursuing women, you become more attractive to them unconsciously. Women start seeing you as a high-value man when you don’t actively pursue them. By not chasing them, you position yourself as “above them,” enhancing your desirability.
This approach piques their curiosity, and they become more interested in spending time with and getting to know you. Demonstrating that you know how to handle a woman who suddenly becomes distant showcases your superiority compared to desperate men who would react differently. As a result, you become a more desirable man than she initially thought.
Here are some of the reasons why you should do it:
Teaches Her To Value You
1. It Lets Her Know Her Behavior Is Unacceptable.
If you consistently allow others to treat you in a particular manner, they will persist in doing so. Therefore, setting clear boundaries to distinguish between acceptable and unacceptable conduct is crucial. Failing to do so could inadvertently condone impolite and disrespectful behavior.
Once you convey that being treated poorly without justification is unacceptable, the other person must choose to continue such behavior. If they want to maintain a relationship with you, they must communicate maturely and respectfully when something is amiss.
2. It Shows Her That You Respect Yourself.
The ability to ignore a woman when she’s cold to you reflects how you see your worth. It shows that your self-respect doesn’t allow you to accept disrespect from others.
To be an appealing man, it’s important to exhibit self-esteem by not yielding to a woman’s demands or displaying petulance when she distances herself from you. This conduct suggests that you hold yourself in high regard, irrespective of her views, and as she recognizes this characteristic, she’s more inclined to remain engaged with you. Read More…
