Get Back With My Ex, Good or Bad Idea ?
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Loading... - jacob daniel
- 24 Feb 2023
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Who has never been tempted to go back to their ex 😉 ? I think we've all been through a period like this, with someone we were attached to, whether it was a little vacation fling or someone who shared our lives for many years. But isn't the question we have to ask ourselves, is it really healthy to go back to your ex?
If we look around us, it is common to see couples break up and later come back together, whether in our entourage or even in celebrities, I think of Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck, having had the chance to rekindle an old flame. But most of the time, does this new relationship with our ex last very long?
Why did you break up?
This is the first question you need to ask yourself if you want to get back to your ex! It is necessary to work on this and remember the reason for the breakup. It could be a lack of communication, or anything else, but it is important to know what ended the relationship you had, because it could resurface in your new relationship, if you manage to get back together.
What changed?
Just out of a relationship and already want to get back together with your ex? We'll tell you right now, it's not a good idea! You need some time to take stock of the breakup, and refocus on yourself. Take some time for yourself so that you can come to terms with what changed between your breakup and the time you're ready to go back to your ex. If you don't have the answer to the question about your change, you're not ready, and your ex will realize this, so you might as well give yourself a chance and be a little patient.
What about your inner workings in all this?
According to a serious scientific study, more than 69% of problems in a relationship are impossible to solve. ⚡ Personality traits, value systems, future plans are things that are likely to be complicated to change and if they are the cause of the breakup, there is little chance of getting back to them even with self-work. However, instead of resolving these issues and trying to change the other person, we need to learn to accept that person for who they are. There is no quick fix, but one of the main keys is communication. Work on it and you can greatly improve the problems that are sensitive. Read More…
