Does shyness add or subtract attractiveness?
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- 22 Apr 2022
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Unlike extroverts, who in themselves attract more attention, shy people have a series of characteristics that make them interesting and mysterious people. Do these qualities work in the field of seduction?
The psychologist, Natalia Álvarez, confirms that shy people are capable of revolutionizing the strategies of conquest by the way they appear to others.
“They are considered attractive because of the visible characteristics they present and the perception of them as analytical, interesting and mysterious people. They are always attentive, listening, and seemingly easy to handle”, he explains in conversation with VOS.
By being reserved and with little interest in interacting and connecting with other people, they manage to increase the curiosity that they have in them. Even so, they are unaware of their potential in the field of seduction and are able to evade those who are interested in discovering who they are.
“Because they are silent and mysterious, people want to know what they are thinking and doing. And this is how they can look attractive and intimidating at the same time, ”she maintains.
Various studies of human personality reveal that shy people have characteristics that make them attractive people. Among the advantages they possess, Álvarez highlights the ability to listen and the ability to develop other skills.
“In an environment where most want to talk, the shy are willing to listen. This attitude favors the possibility of having friends. They also tend to accept the advice they are given, ”she remarks.
However, he explains that shyness is a personality trait that in some becomes almost imperceptible, while in others it becomes more noticeable, representing a certain difficulty in social life.
“They are usually emotionally withdrawn and not as affectionate, so they come across as unsociable. They show fear in situations or public actions in which they are exposed to people who do not belong to their area of ​​trust. The shy person is forced to develop other skills in compensation for his lack of ability to interact, ”he details.
These people have better memory and greater linguistic capacity, although they commonly express themselves better in writing than orally. They are also very methodical and have greater concentration than extroverts. Read More…
